Yesterday i went to arena, chose ares but didn't lock-in and there was 1 person on the enemy team that hadn't locked in. So the match gets canceled and i noticed that i didn't automatically join the queue. I click play and i have a 2min deserter and my goodwill is all gone. Why is that? i had chosen a god but waited to see if i needed to change him later for some reasons. Normally it would have locked in automatically, so why did i get deserter and lost all my goodwill?